The characters in the movie can always meet every turning point in a dramatic way. What about real life? Life is often not as tense as movies, but its depth and complexity cannot be ignored. That period of time in the past seemed to be advancing regardless of human will. It hides the heaviness that we cannot bear, and also contains some mystery that seems to have never been revealed.
Looking back, it seems that all choices and opportunities are allusions to fate. We used to think that every step we took was led by ourselves, but we didn’t know that many invisible forces had already pushed us in a certain direction. Just like those characters who are deeply involved in violent conflicts, they often inadvertently find that they have been drawn into a vortex that they cannot extricate themselves from, and they no longer have room for choice.
However, it is in these irresistible situations that the trajectory of our lives is truly shaped. Those deep pains seem to pave the way to a certain understanding. You can’t resist, and you can’t escape easily. Only by constantly experiencing and bearing can you finally reach an unknown end, which may be light or still shadow.
The intricacies and subtle human nature that are everywhere
Life is like a tragic movie. Often everyone is the director of his own destiny, but we never find that we have never really grasped the clue of destiny. The characters in the movie seem to be punished by God at some point, or bound by their own emotions. Isn’t it the same for us in life?
Behind every choice, there is endless hesitation and struggle. Reason and emotion are often intertwined when you are most vulnerable. Behind those decisive decisions are endless regrets and entanglements. Just like a movie without a climax, the characters are pushed ruthlessly and cannot turn back.
But life is not a movie with a perfect ending. We can’t make choices just to fulfill a beautiful illusion. We can only try to find our own piece of land in this intricate dilemma, and even peek into the truth of life in the details covered by countless people.
The difficulty in distinguishing between right and wrong eventually becomes a kind of wisdom of life
Life gives us many opportunities, but never promises us a “correct” answer. We often stand at the crossroads of life, trying to make choices, but there seems to be no clear boundaries behind each choice. Those seemingly simple decisions eventually become the key to our destiny. What we expect is not to succeed without pressure, but to find a place that truly belongs to us in a limited time.
Just like the characters in those movies who are teased by fate, we are always trying to understand the meaning of life when facing countless choices. Every failure seems to be the trough of the plot, and every persistence is laying the groundwork for the next climax. The growth of each character is completed in conflict. Only after experiencing the blow of fate can we understand the essence of fate.
Perhaps this is the meaning of life. It cannot give you everything you want, but it can make you learn to be strong in struggle and learn to face yourself better. You can’t control everything, but you can choose to stay rational in chaos and choose to stick to your principles in pain.
The existence of love is not just the combination of two people
I used to think that love is a perfect combination, like in the movie, the eyes of the hero and heroine meet, and they can walk together forever. But when love really appeared in my life, I realized that love is not just a simple beauty, it also has its complex shadows and difficulties. The truth of love is often hidden in those contradictions and conflicts.
Love is not just the beauty of “you love me, I love you”, it is also the balance found by two hearts in constant running-in. And this balance is often tortuous, difficult, and even painful. But this pain can make us more deeply realize that love needs to be paid, and we need to learn to let go at certain moments.
When two people come together, it is not only the fusion of feelings, but more about facing the ups and downs of life together. In these hardships, both parties will gradually understand what “true love” is. It is not mutual dependence, but the ability to find resonance and understanding in each other’s world, and be willing to overcome various difficulties in life for each other.
Only time can make us see everything clearly
Time is the best witness, it records all our joys, sorrows, anger, and happiness, all our choices and abandonments. Whether it is the pain in the past or the satisfaction now, time is quietly changing us and shaping our hearts. When we stand in front of the long river of time and look back at the past, all the struggles and confusions seem to become insignificant.
Everyone has experienced unavoidable lows in life, but it is these lows that shape our strong hearts. Time did not give us the initial answer, but it gave us enough time to understand everything, to accept everything calmly, and to face everything calmly. Those past pains will eventually become an indispensable part of the road of life, and these fragments will eventually be slowly taken away by time and brought to our deeper memories.